Dunia ini kecil ya...?

Sebenarnya, sudah disadari sejak beberapa waktu yang lalu bahwa dunia ini terasa keciii...l, terutama sejak kemajuan teknologi semakin pesat. Jarak tak terasa, waktu tak lagi jadi kendala, dan rasanya kawan kita ada di mana-mana. Kawanmu, kawanku juga. Di sini, di sana, eh... ketemu si itu-itu lagi. Katanya, antara satu orang dan lainnya hanya terhubung oleh paling banyak 6 jaring. Benarkah? Beberapa hari ini, dengan 'perfect stranger' sekalipun, cukup terhubung dengan dua jaring tuh. Haha... Dunia ini memang keeciil ya?

Themesong

Selalu ada themesong untuk setiap peristiwa yang kujalani. Hari ini themesong-nya dari Kahitna. Sebaris lagu yang aku pun tak hapal judulnya.
"Menunggu itu kesal juga... Resah menanti jawabannya... naanana nana nana nana..." dst.
Pada intinya ya begitu deh. Saat ini sedang menanti email dari beberapa kawan, tapi ternyata tak kunjung datang (padahal udah nyempat-nyempatin ke warnet.) Kalau ditungguin malah nggak datang, yang nggak ditunggu malah menghampiri. Tapi ya sudahlah. Sikap terbaik untuk menyikapinya mungkin ya dengan bersabar. Ada yang bisa ngasih saran lain? Ditunggu. (Nah, themesong-nya nyambung lagi kan? ;))

Are you my reason, season, or lifetime?

Pay attention to what you read. After you read this, you will know the reason it was sent to you! People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person. When someone is in your life for a REASON . . .

It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.

Then people come into your life for a SEASON. Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: Things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being a part of my life.

And I'm wondering for some people in my life, whether they are my reason, my season, or my lifetime. And who you are? And who I am? The question that I can only answer.